Hair Update|Dry Hair, Extreme Shedding, Bald Edges And A Drastic Trim.

Welcome back to my blog 🙋

This is an old post that has been sitting in my drafts since April. I just didn’t get to edit and upload it before my exams in May and after exams I forgot about it. I just wanted to publish it before I bring out the new natural hair content I have stashed in the drafts.

My hair went through IT this year whew!

After the braids I did in late January which I took down mid March, my hair has been going through a lot. I finished 1st semester exams last month and I’m preparing for another one next month so my hair is the last thing on my mind. When I took down the braids, my ends were raggedy and rough because the girl that braided my hair thought it wise to comb my hair with a rat tail comb while dry despite my complains but that’s a story for another day. So I had to trim quite an amount of hair.

I’ve always heard that stress can affect your hair and skin but I had never experienced it on my hair before now. My skin usually gets most of the effect. Once I’m stressed, it would start showing from my face but my hair has always been a strong girl. She couldn’t take much this time I guess. My skin hasn’t really acted up yet. I’ve been maintaining beauty with all these stress.

This has been the most stressful time of my life. My routine has been wake up, eat, go to class to read, sleep, eat, read in the hostel, complain,rant or cry then read again.

My hair has been in cornrows for the most part but it’s currently in twists now. It has been dry and feels so crusty. The shedding is also crazy. I try to avoid using combs now because that’s a recipe for disaster so I use my fingers to detangle.

My edges? They’re slowly getting bald. It doesn’t also help that I sometimes twirl loose hair around my edges when I’m stressed, anxious or reading and I’ve been reading a lot, so yeah.

I’m consciously trying to at least spritz my hair with water or a moisturizing spray everyday before I go to class since I put my hair in twists and it has helped to an extent.


My exams have come and gone and yeah I passed😊. April and May especially, was the most stressful time of my life. I had 6 weeks to prepare for my exam. And the exam ran for 3 weeks. Those 9 weeks? Horrible. But I’m happy it’s over.

My hair is in a better place now. The shedding has stopped, it’s no longer extra dry and my edges are growing back.

I had kinky twists before my exam started so I wouldn’t be bothered about it. Right now my hair is getting better and I love that for me.

Thanks for reading.

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8 thoughts on “Hair Update|Dry Hair, Extreme Shedding, Bald Edges And A Drastic Trim.

  1. OMG Wendy you are so damn gorgeous😍!! Man I swear if I was a guy, I would totally be crushing on you😅😂❤.
    Congratulations on passing🎉🎉🎉. Nigeria’s future doctor😁❤.
    Hope you’re fine and keep flashing that beautiful smile of yours✨


  2. I totally feel you. Especially the loosing of edges part😭😭😭.
    I made shuku, Ghana weaving last month and I don’t feel like looking at the mirror until I loosen this hair this weekend, because what’s going on?
    The girl that made it, made the edges really tight despite my complains and whenever I look at the mirror, I see my edges going with the attachment 😭😭😭😭. I don’t know if you get.
    I’m twisting my hair this weekend, as soon as I get rid of this shuku.

    Your hair is gorgeous!!!!! I’m glad she’s doing better now.

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    • Ghana weaving is what I’m scared of allowing any random person to do for me. My edges are really fragile. I can manage braids because you’ll know immediately if it’s too tight and it can be loosened and remade but Ghana weaving is a whole game entirely.
      I did Ghana weaving myself few weeks ago🤭🤭 and it came out really well. It’s goodbye to salons for me right now.
      You should give your hair a serious break after now. Try massaging your edges with oil before you loosen it.


      • Who sent me?😭😭😭😭.
        Wow, you made Ghana weaving yourself? That’s so cool. It must’ve been a lot of work, but it’s better than allowing a random salon person.
        I’d totally massage my edges with oil first. Thank you ❤️


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